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New parent stress: tired, overwhelmed, in love
A new baby brings huge love and huge change at the same time. Broken sleep, new worries and less time for yourself can wear anyone down. Feeling overwhelmed does not make you a bad parent.
You might be asking
What it can look like
- You are running on very little sleep most days.
- You feel you should be happier than you are.
- You rarely have time that is only yours.
- Small things make you cry or snap.
- You worry constantly about doing it wrong.
What can help
- Accept help when it is offered, and name what you need.
- Sleep when you can, even short naps count.
- Talk with other parents who will be honest with you.
- Share the night shifts if there is someone to share with.
- If low mood lasts more than two weeks or you feel unsafe, talk to a doctor or professional right away.
More check-ins for this
Questions people ask
Is it normal to feel low after having a baby?
Many parents have hard days. If sadness, worry or numbness lasts more than two weeks, or you have thoughts of harming yourself or the baby, reach out to a doctor or a crisis line now.
Can fathers and partners feel this too?
Yes. Partners can feel tired, anxious and low as well, and deserve support too.
If you need someone to talk to now
These lines are open 24 hours. If you are in danger, call your local emergency number.
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This page is for reflection and general information, not a diagnosis or treatment. If things feel heavy for a long time, talk to someone you trust or a professional. Written by the Glim team.